"Hi.. Im not sure who exactly Im contacting here...if it's Stacy or Mike regarding your Andrew Tower story but I would very much like to ask you why you have elected to disable commenting on your articles regarding Andrew. I also would like to know if it is at all possible to somehow have these stories come up when he is searched by a more common name he gives many new woman who are clueless to his troubled behavior. There are many women he is hurting currently and they are not even aware of his 'real name'. He gives Drew Perez... or Andrew Perez. If you have any questions and have time to reply to my email, it would very much be appreciated. Thank you..."
I referred her to this page, explaining why I closed commenting. She replied:
"Yes, I would very much like to see an update posted. Although, in the public eye, I would like to for the time being remain anonymous. To you... I will gladly share my identity and the key I hold to putting him in prison right now. Im in a very sensitive and difficult position right now. Andrew is 'in hiding' and is now considered an absconder to his probation. I was with Andrew for... well, this January would have been two years...or "I thought I was!". Anyway, my boys and I are suffering greatly right now because for the last few months I had been trying to break it off but at the same time trying to get my *withheld info* which I am paying for...and I have a buyer for it but last conversations back and forth...with 'his brother' I might add... was that I would 'break his heart' if I left him etc... Coincidentally, he had a FAKE heart attack at the end of Sept and has been in and out of the hospital. Bullshit.. but I have been trying to play my cards right because I need my *withheld* back!! I have already talked to an officer...and I have another felony I could add to his record too with the proof I have... *withheld*. Yes, he still claims to be #5 in the world of graphic car designers for GM. And I currently had his latest fiancee contact me after finding my number on her bill. Much to her surprise, he was 'engaged' to the both of us with little doubt he is even legally divorced. Although, I do have a question... how does his wife have a child support issue against him legally if they are together? That I never figured out yet. As of right now, he has 5 bench warrants active again. And I will be happy to add TWO more!!! Thank you for getting back to me. The blogs are a lot to take absorb... and I have for some time been trying to convince myself that I did nothing wrong. And that he deserves to pay deeply for all of this. I am waay too understanding..have a lot of faith in people.. but I have been turning my head for too long!!
Warm regards,"
*Withheld for privacy/legal purposes
And then, I receive this gem a couple weeks ago...
"He got what was coming to him and I personnally am glad.
He got 16 months so far in prison and one other charge to come.
However, I am divorcing him so I am over it.
I would like to ask you a question however, and that question is:
Now that he is gone for a while, could you please just delete these pages?
I am tired of trying to answer questions about him and all his conquests.
I am sorry for anyone who he has suckered into knowing him, but please enough is enough. Now my childrens friends are asking question because its fun to search thier friends name and such and they find it. Its embarrassing to the boys. If you don't care about anything please just think about the kids. Personnally I think he deserved this site, but when it comes to the boys I believe it needs to be taken down. I understand if you think I am just asking for him I am not. At christmas time it happened again and I walked out. This time he was using the name Drew Perez, and he had 3 fiancees. I was blasted because he was using one of their phones and they contacted me and each of the other ladies. Now he is going to prison for possible anywhere from 6 to 60 months. For the child support and for the felonies that have already been written about. But, look I am sick of my life and my kids lives being blasted just because of his crap. So I am asking you as a mother to please take these pages down.
If you want to answer me with a reply please do, I have asked you to talk to me before with no response.
Thank you for looking at my email and considering my request.
*Name Withheld to protect the
All my Love,
Stay Safe,
Always help your friends & family in need!"
But when I look at his Offender Bio via the State of Michigan's Department of Corrections, I notice that he is off probation as of the 12th of this month. Who can be believed? Kids-a-plenty Tower doesn't appear to have a single warrant, but a few short months ago, he was an absconder. Does that even seem plausible?
Regardless of the legal what-have-you, the latter email did strike a chord with me, being that I am also a mother. At the same time, I question if, in looking at the big picture, the blog posts are more hurtful than helpful due to the amount of thankful email I receive from people who were saved the horrible experience that is A. R. Tower.
One last thing, I don't have a vendetta here. My sister has moved on and this is not a personal axe I have to grind as, thankfully, I have never met the guy. Quite frankly, I'm sick of being the messenger and I don't intend to do it anymore but in light of these two emails, I feel I need to make a decision once and for all — do I remove the posts regarding this, hoping that Drew Perez doesn't strike again? Or should I keep them up and let them serve as a warning to local women? Shouldn't we be a community that looks out for one another? One last question, why don't these women go start their own forums?
Discuss.
