I just wanted to say thanks for posting this blog. I almost got involved with this loser. After several months of wooing me on-line from Nov 2005 to March 2006, Andrew Tower offered me a diamond ring and asked me to marry him. We hadn't met face to face so I told him we could meet and see if we had the same chemistry in person. Thing after thing came up including his mother passing away, which good heavens I would hope he didn't lie about too, but I suppose he quite probably did. I found out through wiring him flowers that he gave me a false address so I got to doing some research on him. He had been planning to come spend a week with me, of course after I told him I felt we knew each other well enough to sleep together. I have no doubt in my mind that if we had met, he would have used me for that week, left, and I probably never would have heard from him again. I called him out on his address and also after finding he is still married thanks to a background check, he has never contacted me again...though I'm not surprised. I am still hurt that he lied all along...just like anyone else out there, I just want to find love and happiness, but I just thank God I found this blog and several others like it that kept me from being hurt any more than I already was.
Just for the record, for any other girls who may encounter this loser, he claims to be a concept car designer for GM, but he doesn't need the job because he's almost a millionaire. He supposedly bought me a platinum and diamond ring, a Harley motorcycle (sent me pics of both), and was supposedly selling his huge mansion-like home in Flint to buy a home here for he, my son, and myself to live in together. He also likes to write poems, which I have no doubt he probably sends to all the girls saying he wrote it just for them. My advice is don't believe anyone! Do background checks, sex offender searches, and check for prison records...you can never be too careful and it really hurts getting your emotions toyed with :( Good luck to all!

Sincerely,
Heather

WoW these are so very recent and to think I am still involved with him... Maybe I am finally learning people just can't change can they??? I never asked him to change just to stop the lies... That was too much to ask apparently... Funny thing is no matter how many women he still has a home to go to and apparently no intentions of leaving his wife... (Ps.... Nope his mom is alive and well)

hi I am a single woman being lied to by andrew also I have been investigating him and finding nothing but crap about him.Yes he's married,yes he has children many of them don't know he exists and he does not even care or support them.this man needs a lesson and I for 1 will give him 1 he messed with the wrong 1 this time.He has no intentions on leaving his wife for anyone and will go on and on with women like this just to get his fix.He is obviously mental unstable and needs mental help the truth is he is a pathological liar and just can't and won't stop.

Ha! I caught my ex-wife (wife at the time) with this loser back in early '04. Shame he was only using her, if ever two people deserved each other...

Hey, I just came across this via Google. hah! Go figure you can find just about anything on Google. Anyways, I just wanted to say, I am his oldest child. My name is Aaron, I am 17 years old and currently a member of the United States, Michigan Army National Guard. I have a long story to talk about, but I will allow you to contact me in order to get anything out of me. Anyways, I am sure he is aware of his children, as well as most of them know who he is and etc. For instance, I just met my baby sister Emma. She is 3 years old and oh so cute. I have also met the oldest of my little brothers, Lil Andy, and CJ. However, I not met my youngest baby brother Noah. He only has 5 children. Not 6, and he does not pay child support on anyone of them. Infact, we have a court date this week against, you will never guess, Andrew Tower in pursuit of Child Support. He will not show up, He never does, and never will.
I just thought I would offer up what I know as his Eldest son. And Yes, I am sure I am his eldest because, my mother was with him all through high school and out side, even during his rather short Navy career that managed to get him up to an E6.. Impossible striaght out of Basic may I add. Anywho... If you would like to know or get a hold of me, if you are my siblings parents, my email is aaron.r.gardner@us.army.mil

Just thought that I'd correct some information. Andrew Tower was born March 29th 1969. He went to Grand Blanc Highschool, and attended Skill Center. I have known him since the summer of 1983. I have my own Andrew Tower story. I will not write the story... it will not doing any good to rehash the life that we shared. I personally am very happily married to the right guy and thankfull for not letting Andrew stay in my life. I am the mother of Aaron, and Andrew donated the sperm. I think that this LIZARD needs to realize what he is doing to his biological children. Does he not realize that he is doing serious damange to these kids? It's pretty bad that you need to warn your child not to get involved with someone because they may be your sibling. Andrew doesn't think that these children would eventually grown and want lives of their own. He told me that it would be very unlikely for these kids to meet yet alone fall in love, but wtf does he think? He will tell you what ever you want to hear, don't believe a word until you've proven it. My wish is for all the children that exist to be able to know each other and who their cousins are and stay safe from the hurt that he will introduce them to. Andrew Tower is not worth it!!!!!!!!!! LADIES be WARNED!!!!!!!!! If you want to contach me and get the truth or need to know basic medical information for your child please feel free to contact me. HeavenLeeAngl@hotmail.com

Hello Lady LIzards,
Anyone of you are despearte enough to have to go oneline to meet a man you should always beware of anyone oneline COME-ON How dumb are you? Andrew is my brother and I know he is a good person and I do have 4nephews and 1 neice by him and god knows by how many of you woman DAA! Don't any of you believe in birth control as you are all adults HA!HA! NO excuse for his behavior eithier as we were raised better than that. NO his mother is not dead but she's not any better than anyone else. She tried to raise him with some sense of respect for woman as he treats his wife very well and its her decision if he stays married or not, not his. I will not get involved in his bussiness but he is my brother and I still love and care about him as he is younger brother and is still part of my family.So the next time a person on the internet seems to good to be true they usually are. Wake up all of you women especially if you have kids, People you met online are not always what you get.

Hey, is this the same brother that contacts women and tells them that Andrew is dead? I am betting it is the lizard himself, because he likes to hide behind net anonymity.

Why don't someone turn this total scum bag in reading about him, We noticed he is not supose to have a computer has anyone thought of calling his probation officer?

Hi! Who is this? I've known Andrew since 1983, As far as I have known for the last 23 years Andrew is Liz's and Harold's only child. How can anyone be a good person and treat his wife well as you say, when he abandons and denies his children, fails to follow the court's request regarding child support, and continues to cheat on his wife that he loves so much as late in this year as June ( I believe was the last post.) He has little regard to the possibility that he could give her some disease that could leave three beautiful boys without a mother and support.

I was 14 when I met him, naive and full of hope. I believed him when he said that he wanted to marry me. I believed him he told me that I was the only one that he loved. I believed him when he told me that he'd be there always for our son, and that he'd never hurt him like Harold did him.

I agree with you regarding the women that he preys on. They should know better then to trust someone with the nicks that I've seen that he's used. Ladies, there is also an email that is going around if you haven't see it, you should, some maniac is killing women that he meets on line in Mid-Michigan. I have checked out the story but I believe that it could happen to anyone that meets someone on line.

You are also right about his wife. Only she can kick him out or not. If she thinks that he's worth putting up with all the doctor visits, court cases and knowing that she can't trust him. I know that I can trust my husband. He has never cheated on me. It was very hard at first to trust him, because of what Andrew did to me, but he is not Andrew and treats me with respect and love.

So, if you think about it the people that he has hurt have every right to complain about him and warn other people about him. His children and family members are the true victims in this mess. I have an awesome young man that you all have missed getting to know not because of me but because of Andrew not doing what he promised to do.

Renee'

Hi! Who is this? I've known Andrew since 1983, As far as I have known for the last 23 years Andrew is Liz's and Harold's only child. He has 1 step-sister or I guess that could be ex-step-sister since his mother cheated on her father and they divorced as well. He also only has 1 brother, who is 4 years younger, and the only sibling that his sister and he share. How can anyone be a good person and treat his wife well as you say, when he abandons and denies his children, fails to follow the court's request regarding child support, and continues to cheat on his wife that he loves so much as late in this year as June ( I believe was the last post.) He has little regard to the possibility that he could give her some disease that could leave three beautiful boys without a mother and support.

I was 14 when I met him, naive and full of hope. I believed him when he said that he wanted to marry me. I believed him he told me that I was the only one that he loved. I believed him when he told me that he'd be there always for our son, and that he'd never hurt him like Harold did him.

I agree with you regarding the women that he preys on. They should know better then to trust someone with the nicks that I've seen that he's used. Ladies, there is also an email that is going around if you haven't see it, you should, some maniac is killing women that he meets on line in Mid-Michigan. I have checked out the story but I believe that it could happen to anyone that meets someone on line.

You are also right about his wife. Only she can kick him out or not. If she thinks that he's worth putting up with all the doctor visits, court cases and knowing that she can't trust him. I know that I can trust my husband. He has never cheated on me. It was very hard at first to trust him, because of what Andrew did to me, but he is not Andrew and treats me with respect and love.

So, if you think about it the people that he has hurt have every right to complain about him and warn other people about him. His children and family members are the true victims in this mess. I have an awesome young man that you all have missed getting to know not because of me but because of Andrew not doing what he promised to do.

Renee'

WoW...I wonder if we would have a net so overly packed with shit that there wouldn't be any room left for any business ethics if every female who ever had an argument, break-up, or was swayed from the truth by a man wrote up blog after blog damaging their rep..Andrew Tower may have made mistakes...but so have a million and one other men in their lives...AND women are no different...If God had made us perfect....We would not be human. As long as he has made amends with his children he put on this earth (and he has)....everyone should carry on with their own lives and GET OVER IT. He is not the only male on earth who has made mistakes...AND he will not be the LAST!

yes but he keep doingit over and over with diff. women so on so on he does not know enough to stop he been done for some time he did it to my friend in about 2000

Instrument: 199508040000020 Volume Page: 95
Document Type: MARRIAGE LICENSE
Bride: NEELEY, TAMMY LYNN
Groom: TOWER, ANDREW RAYMOND
Married: 08/04/1995

Just in case anyone doubts he is married, you can see this public data by searching on his name at http://www.co.genesee.mi.us/vitalrec/Navigate.asp?AdvancedSearch.x=84&AdvancedSearch.y=18

You seem to have nothing better to do then sit and keep this shit going on and on and on We all know that he is married im starting think that you have the hotts for him and just keep it going are you sure that is was your sister that was in love with him and not you mike

I confronted that pussy and all he could do is stand there and shake. I hate deadbeat dads (and I use the term dad loosely). The guy is a scumbag and I have told him as much to his face. He knows who this is and he knows where I am if he wants to discuss anything. I'll use his balding head to polish my shoes. Hate fucking deadbeats.

I know you all believe I am stupid and niave,
however I have my reasons for staying with the man.

I am his wife, I know about Aaron who is in Kuwait now. I have 2 boys by him as well. Then there is Emma who is in Washington and Noah who is in Flint with his mom. Both the mothers to the younger two can be contacted by their profile in the original message and if you look at some of the comments on the original you will have my email as well.
I would prefer my name not go anywhere else but here.
You are all correct and most of the stories I have heard before. Don't you think you have trashed him enough? Our 12 year old found this one.......!

I would greatly like to meet the guy who posted this about my bilogical father. If anyone could please message me I would greatly appreciate it. Contact me at l0new0lf420@yahoo.com

PFC. Aaron Robert Gardner
Michigan Army National Guard

Nice try. I know this couldn't be the real Aaron that already posted once before. Hmmmm....how? In the first one Aaron did not come up as "Anonymous". Also, his email address was to the National Guard. Last, from the people I spoke to about Aaron, I got the impression that the email listed here couldn't be one that he would choose.

Who am I? One day you may find out. No, I am not one of Andrew's kids. Nor one of his "marks". Lets just say I have a "special" interest. So for now I will just sit back and study him and wait.

Actually that is the real Aaron. I'm his mom and that is his email that he's used for years before he enlisted.
Renee'

I stand corrected. I offer both you and Aaron my most sincere apologies.

I'd like to talk with you mr or mrs anonymous.
please email me at angelic_eyes77@yahoo.com

Ok... Well as my mom put it out there. Yeah this really is Aaron. and I am in Iraq right now as Tammy put it out as me to be in Kuwait. I appreicate that you would apologize for questioning my email and saying Im not Aaron Robert Gardner. Might I ask why you would think that I wouldnt use my favorite animal as my email? and where you found so much about me to think that I wouldnt use that email? Your right, I do have an Army email address... however that is exactly that. An Army email that is used for business and extremely close friends and relatives.

So if your not one of his kids, or his "marks" as you say... than who are you? and what is your special interest with Andy. Study him? Are you some kind of psychologist? To save your emabarrassment you can email me at that email given or since you dont trust that email... send it to aaron.r.gardner@us.army.mil.

PFC. Aaron Robert Gardner
United States Army

I wonder how many of us there are, I'm lucky enough to have not gotten pregnant (no glove...no love… is my motto), and all the stories I'm hearing...it’s like OMFG. I was deeply hurt by Andrew and extremely angry with him for a while. I will admit we had some fun times and no not just in the bedroom, and not to mention...I learned a whole lot from him. I learned to keep my eyes and ears open...and also learned not to trust so easily. I'm no longer angry at him; Andrew has needs that apparently can't be met. He desires attention and affection and he is willing to give as he gets...but what he gets isn't enough to fulfill his desires. Yes some people might he is just a player and plays on our emotions but I feel it goes deeper than that. I’m not saying how he goes about it is right, but who are we to go out there and judge. We are not perfect…none of us are. So instead of bashing him… you might want to stop and think why he is the way he is. It’s really pretty sad that he is in such need of emotional and physical attention. What ever happen to us all…Think of it as a lesson learned and go on with your life. I have but with some obstacles… because of what I went through with Andrew I have major trust issues. And if you are the same way, Might I showing whom ever you’re in a relationship with…The blog here that has been written about Andrew. It might help them understand a little more.

this is my dad and u do no what your are u doing

I got that this is your dad... But I don't understand what your trying to say to me or what point your trying to make...